class Member < ActiveRecord::Base
has_many :contact_references
has_many :contacts, through: :contact_references # contacts are of
class
Member
end
m1 = Member.new
m2 = Member.new
m1.contacts.include? m2 # => false
m1.contacts << m2
m1.contacts.delete m2
m1.contacts # => []
m1.contacts.include? m2 # => true
W00t?