I should add that I want to redirect the user out to the third party
with the form too. Essentially I want it to appear to the user that
they’ve submitted the form to the third party directly.
You can either use an HTTP 307 response (http://www.w3.org/Protocols/
rfc2616/rfc2616-sec10.html#sec10.3.8) which, according to the
standard, should re-send the original request to the given location
(keeping the original method and data), but browsers require
confirmation from the user (most browsers - an unfriendly dialog),
some browser-specific quirks may occur as well. Except from this,
that’s the ‘standard’ method for your use case.
You can also use any Ruby HTTP client to send the request from your
server, wait for the response, and, basing on it, send your response
(maybe a redirect) to the client. This solution is more complicated to
implement, and if it’s a non-trivial third party form, some issues
with cookies/sessions may appear.
Keep us updated on your progress.