I noticed that when you use an include on an association, for each
record that does not have an association corresponding to the included
association, an extra sql statement will be executed in order to find
the record which you already know does not exist because it would have
otherwise been fetched by the include already.
To avoid these extra db round trips I would like to check if the
association has already been fetched before I call on the association
and let rails attempt to lazy load it.
Does anyone know how I can do this?