I’m using act_as_paranoid plugin for most of my models. One of the
reasons was that I didn’t want to break references between objects
after I “deleted” an object. One of the cases was to know which user
modified something even after I deleted the user.
My problem now is that I cannot access the user after it was deleted
if I use the :has_and_belongs_to :user relationship.
Is there any way to override act_as_paranoid behavior only to access
relationships in some cases even if the object is soft deleted?